
Ok you have told yourself that you need to lose weight for Summer or it maybe a special occasion like a school reunion.
Solution:
Say this to yourself, "Well, I wish I didn't eat that much, but I did. That's ok". Than you decide that in the future you will rethink your calorie level when eating your Mum's cooking. You will plan to budget extra calories when you go there next time. Than you say, "I will make a point to eat more carefully today and I can enjoy my favourites and keep my weight in check too".
Play it Over in Your Mind:
Once you have gone through a setback, its time to envision the solutions. What I mean is, mentally rehears or imagine yourself managing stressful events successfully.
Situation:
You have a up and coming family reunion and you feel anxious because of the great food that is always served at these events.
Solution:
For several days prior to the event, take ten minutes and sit in a quiet spot. Close your eyes and see yourself at the family reunion. See yourself confidently entering the room, easily interacting with friends and family. You’re looking over the buffet, seeing the foods you really love. Seeing yourself making wise choices, choosing small portions and eating mindfully. Imagine leaving the event feeling great with how well you handled yourself.
Don't worry if you don't know the specific details of the event, that's fine. Your mind will not know the difference between what's real and what's not. If you repeat this exercise, you will build confidence in yourself to make the right choices in reality.
Final Thought and Tip:
My final thoughts on all this is that make sure that you are true to yourself . Face your setbacks early on, because you are only letting yourself down if you say you are going to do or commit to something. When you well know deep down that you will not fellow through with it.
e.g Every morning you say that you will go to gym after work but you know you won't.
Take responsibility for your choices. Stop setting yourself up for failure. Either find a better time that suits you to go to gym or do something that you like. e.g take up dancing lessons or walking. By finding something that you really like will help you keep motivated and moving your body.
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What helps you keep on Track? What do you need to stay honest about?
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